If you've been following me on social media, then you know I've been more than enthusiastic about the book, "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying". Marie Kondo takes tidying to a whole new level with her system of decluttering, by using the category method than by room, or the little by little approach. Which has made this method "KonMari" probably the most effective way of tidying up once and for all.
But as I began reading this book, it was more than just about tidying. She asks really hard questions, that takes time to evaluate your heart and what you really want in life. I think this is one of the reasons why I love this book and method so much, because she helps you see clearly the areas in your life where you have been making excuses upon excuses to not change your habits. One of the reasons our homes are the way they are is because of our past experiences and our fear of the future, by facing your past and saying good bye, you not only get freed up but you can also confront your future with arms wide open and not cowering with fear of the unknowns.
Here are 10 reasons why I love the KonMari Method;
1.) Direct, and to the point (no BS nonsense).
2.) She shares her life experiences, which feels a lot less intimidating.
3.) The method works! She give tons of testimonies of people who were boarder line hoarders and NONE of them have relapse.
4.) She helps you see the things you've been hanging onto in your life that don't bring you joy.
5.) She helps you get clarity and vision for what kind of lifestyle you want to live and come home to.
6.) You learn the difference between "tidying" and "decluttering"
7.) You become more happier when you come home to a tidy house.
8.) You start living the life you want. (pursuing your dreams and goals etc.)
9.) You learn more about yourself, your likes and dislikes.
10.) You lose nothing! You only gain a better understanding of yourself, and are given tools to make changes within your home.
Here are 2 reasons of why I don't like this method;
1.) Although she talks about some spiritual things that I don't agree with, I can still respect her, and follow most of the steps she has laid out for tidying. So when you get to some of the parts where it gets little weird just skip it, it's OK. I don't think it will really make or break the tidying process.
2A.) The only other con I have for this, is that I think you have to have outside help. Meaning if you're really going to tackle this, you need at least a good 2 full days to go through this process. Or be committed to tackling a category everyday after you get off work until everything is completed. I am mostly speaking to single folk regarding this.
2B.) As for families and stay at home mommas reading this, now that I have gone through the process, I wish I would of been able to go through it closer to her method of category by category.
What I did, was I went through each room, and then broke it down category by category. This is because when you have a little one or little one(s) tackling a category based on the whole house can be daunting and I am unsure it can be done when you are a stay at home mom. That being said, I would recommend having the kids stay with Grandma and Grandpa over a weekend and you and your husband tackle the whole house together. There is still a good chance you won't get everything done, but I am pretty sure you could get at least 50% completed, and then try again the following week.
If you don't have family in town, I would recommend having a couple of close friends come over and help you with the decluttering process and/or help watch your kids so you can get a few categories completed.
There is a way to get this done! You just have to be creative and ask for help. Once you go through this process you will never again have to declutter your house! And all the angels sing... GLORY! :-)
Here are some links to check out to start your KonMari journey! Happy tidying!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g7uLdLA6IHE (beware of lanuage but she is great!)